Originally included in the zine "Bound to Struggle V: Praxis" Page 26
Having difficulty finding the original word document but the text is in the above link.
I feel very differently about some things now than I did when I wrote this. I have read a lot of second wave feminism since then and now have a great big space in my heart for some second wavers, including some who were anti-kink even though we disagree on that. I also realize that kink is often oppressive when it goes unchecked, as it does in most people, which I did not include in this writing as it was about my experience.